When it comes to child custody myths in South Carolina, few topics cause more anxiety for divorcing parents. Misunderstandings and misinformation can create unnecessary fear and even harm a parent’s case in family court. Let’s take a closer look at the most common myths—and the truth behind them.
Myth 1: Mothers Always Get Custody
This belief is outdated. South Carolina courts evaluate what serves the child’s best interests, not gender. Judges examine caregiving history, stability, and parenting ability—not whether you’re the mother or father. SC Code of Laws
Myth 2: Whoever Has More Money Wins Custody
Finances matter for stability, but custody isn’t a financial competition. Judges weigh multiple factors such as each parent’s involvement, safety, and the ability to provide consistency. Money alone doesn’t determine the outcome. Child Welfare Gateway
Myth 3: The Child Can Choose Where to Live
While a child’s voice is considered, no law gives children full control over custody decisions. Judges consider the child’s maturity and reasoning, but the court makes the final decision in the child’s best interest. SC Legislature
Myth 4: Joint Custody Means No Child Support
Even with joint custody, child support often applies. South Carolina uses a formula that factors in incomes, number of overnights, childcare, and insurance costs. Shared parenting does not eliminate financial responsibility. SC DSS
The Family Home Dilemma: When Good Intentions Backfire
Many parents want to keep the family home “for the kids.” But staying in a house you cannot afford creates heavy financial stress.
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Stretching beyond budget can lead to late payments, foreclosure, and instability.
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Stress multiplies when more than 30%–50% of your income goes to housing expenses.
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Children suffer when financial strain causes sudden moves or loss of stability.
Sometimes the smarter action is to sell, downsize, or refinance rather than stretch finances to the breaking point. A more affordable home often provides greater security and peace of mind for both you and your children.
👉 Don’t let child custody myths or financial missteps put your family at risk. If you’re navigating separation, divorce, or decisions about the family home in South Carolina, reach out today. I can connect you with trusted attorneys, mediators, and financial experts to help protect your rights and your children’s stability.
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